Wanting to delay adulthood and taking longer to settle into a career is a typical scenario for most young adults today. As you come alongside your grown child during this difficult season, make sure you’re not trying to control or fix them in the process. One recently divorced young adult friend of mine said to her parents, “I just want…
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Is your grown child struggling with adulting? If you’re like me, one of the culprits could be that you’re helping them too much. Overparenting is so pervasive in American culture, that without realizing it, I also found myself part of the helicopter parent club. Thankfully, mine is a little helicopter. I’ve seen some black hawk parents. Now that’s some serious…
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“Eye contact. Focused attention. A time for no one else but her. Even in small amounts, this regular contact speaks volumes of love to a child. Make it important. Make it happen.” -Carol Barnier, Engaging Today’s Prodigal
Do you have a wayward young adult? Is it taking a toll on your relationship? Showing unconditional love through the messiness of life is essential to building trust and rapport. Your love must not waver and must be apparent to all, especially your young adult. Stick with them. Remember, this is just a season. It’s not forever. They’ll come out…
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Decisions, decisions! Our young adult kids face so many BIG decisions. Career. Marriage. Home. What do you do when they come to you for advice? When our son, Jared, graduated from college, and began the big job search, he had 3 different job opportunities to choose from. When he phoned to let his dad and I weigh in on his…
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